Pastor Chris Oyakhilome Urges Men to Love and Care for Their Wives with Greater Understanding
In a heartfelt message during a recent Sunday service, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome, founder and president of LoveWorld Incorporated (Christ Embassy), called on men to show deeper love, understanding, and care toward their wives.
Addressing a congregation filled with couples and families, Pastor Chris emphasized that true Christian marriage is built on selflessness, mutual respect, and genuine partnership. He urged husbands to treat their wives with the same devotion and attention they give to their own wellbeing.
“Leadership in the home is not just about authority,” he said. “It’s about responsibility, love, and compassion. The Bible says husbands should love their wives as Christ loved the church — that is a love that gives, protects, and uplifts.”
A Call for Compassion and Balance in Marriage
Pastor Chris’s message struck a deep chord with many in attendance. He spoke openly about how modern pressures — from work demands to financial challenges — often cause couples to drift apart emotionally. According to him, it is the man’s responsibility as the head of the home to lead with empathy and understanding, not dominance.
He explained that when a husband genuinely listens to his wife, supports her dreams, and meets her emotional and spiritual needs, the entire family benefits. “A thriving marriage is one where both partners feel valued and heard,” Pastor Chris said.
The congregation responded warmly, with many describing the message as timely and much-needed. Several couples shared after the service that the sermon challenged them to rethink how they express love and patience at home.
Men Must Care for Their Wives
Throughout his message, Pastor Chris reminded men that caring for their wives goes beyond providing financially. True care, he noted, involves emotional availability, communication, and spiritual guidance.
“Some men think love is all about giving gifts or paying bills,” he said. “But real love listens, prays, and stands with the woman God has placed by your side.”
He encouraged husbands to be attentive to their wives’ needs — emotionally, physically, and spiritually. He pointed out that neglecting any of these areas can create distance and misunderstanding within a marriage.
According to him, a strong marriage is the foundation of a strong family, and when families are united, the church and society at large benefit.
Building Families on Faith and Understanding
Church leaders have described the sermon as part of an ongoing series on family, faith, and responsibility, which aims to strengthen Christian homes and promote unity within marriages.
This teaching aligns with Pastor Chris’s long-standing message about the importance of building homes where God’s love is the center. Over the years, he has often spoken about the need for both men and women to see marriage as a divine partnership rather than a competition.
He reminded couples that marriage was established by God to reflect His love — a love that forgives, sacrifices, and endures. “A husband who walks in love creates an atmosphere where peace, joy, and growth flourish,” he said.
Reactions from the Christian Community
Since the sermon, clips and quotes from Pastor Chris’s message have circulated widely on social media. Many believers praised the message for addressing an often-overlooked area of family life — emotional care within marriage.
Christian bloggers and relationship coaches echoed his points, noting that the sermon came at a time when many marriages face strain from busyness, social media distractions, and unrealistic expectations.
A couple who attended the service shared, “We were deeply moved. It reminded us that marriage is not about who’s right or wrong but about choosing love every day.”
A Timely Message for Modern Homes
Pastor Chris’s teaching serves as a timely reminder that in a world increasingly defined by individualism, the strength of a marriage lies in unity, empathy, and shared faith. He urged men not to see their leadership role as a privilege, but as a divine assignment that requires humility and service.
He concluded by praying for marriages, asking God to restore peace, rekindle affection, and renew strength in families facing challenges. “When love leads,” he said, “homes will flourish, and children will grow in an atmosphere of joy and grace.”
As Christ Embassy continues its series on marriage and family, many are hopeful that teachings like these will help couples rediscover the biblical foundations of love — built not on pride or control, but on understanding, sacrifice, and grace.
In Pastor Chris’s words, “A man who truly loves his wife reflects the heart of God.”
